今天，吉林省白城师范学院的一份《校园礼仪规范》征求意见稿引发了社会的广泛关注和热议其中，“女士在各种生活场景中，应该主动微笑点头致意，以示亲和”“女生发色宜为黑色”“不染指甲或染成肉色”等表述引发热议
不少学生和网友对此提出质疑：
这样的规定是否合理？
是否对女生作了过多要求？
根据校方的回应，推行《校园礼仪规范》的初衷是为了倡导良好的校园文化，希望培养出面向社会、心情开朗、文化素养高的大学生
微笑点头的礼仪并非强制执行，而是作为一种倡导，学生可以个人选择是否遵守
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然而，这一规范的表述引发了讨论
一些学生和教育专家担心，这样的倡议可能会被误解为对女性行为的某种规范，甚至可能引发性别刻板印象的讨论
他们呼吁校方在推广此类倡议时，应更加注重性别平等和个体差异的尊重
对于这一礼仪规范，社会反响不一
有人认为，礼貌待人当然重要，但单独要求女生微笑点头会让人感觉有性别刻板印象的倾向，为什么不是男女生都主动微笑点头？
而另一位支持者表示，作为未来的社会人，礼貌和亲和力是大学生的一张名片
校园是社会的预演，提前培养良好的礼仪规范没有问题
面对这些反馈，校方表示将进一步完善倡议内容，确保其传达的价值观是包容和多元的
他们计划通过举办讲座、工作坊等形式，向学生普及礼仪知识，同时强调每个人在社交中的自主性和尊重
你们如何看待这件事？
